Zakia Lott

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Author: Zakia Lott

Zakia Lott is a Wellness Advocate, proud mom of two, and an Air Force Veteran, who's passionate about helping others choose habits that align with the life of their dreams. When she isn't writing she's enjoying her daily dose of dark chocolate, while balancing motherhood, wellness, and her creativity for fashion and interior design.

Postpartum Resentment Towards Husband: Reasons and Solutions

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Are you feeling snappy towards your husband more than you’d like since the baby arrived?  If so, you’re definitely not alone.  Here is what a fellow mama shared on Quora: “After the birth of my first child, I hated my husband and was googling divorce attorneys… After about 3 months, everything was okay. Fast-forward to […]

Why Do I Feel Like a Bad Mom? Here’s the Answer

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It’s easy for people to mom-shame someone over something they’re doing for THEIR kid. That’s because we are expected to be supermoms, superwives, super-everything. But being this ninja who can do anything is tiring, and you’re always trying to live up to some invisible standards.  If you’re also suffering from ‘the perfect mom syndrome’, we […]

Motherly Qualities: 25 Characteristics Of A Good Mom

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I became a mom for the first time 11 years ago. Bringing my first child, Lauryn, home came with a bundle of nerves. My heart was pounding with a mix of awe and anxiety as I tried to figure out how I’d handle motherhood. Since I grew up without my mom, I doubted my ability […]

What to Get Husband for Christmas: 120 Thoughtful Gift Ideas for Every Taste

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It’s one of my yearly tasks to understand what to get my husband for Christmas because I want the gift to be something he’ll use and like.  That’s why I’ve put together this handy list of thoughtful gift ideas for him that will check all the boxes: things he’ll actually like, that fit within your […]

Why Do I Feel Disconnected From My Husband? 5 Top Reasons

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My husband walks in the door; we share a fleeting smile—he’s just off from work, and I’m buried in my latest blog project. He heads to the kitchen, and moments later, we’re sitting on separate couches, him with his dinner and Netflix, me glued to my screen.  We have a small talk and our chat […]

How Do You Express Gratitude To Your Family? 7 Proven Ways 

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Parents set the tone for our family’s behavior, so the load is on us to be the flag bearer of positivity. And that brings along some extra pressure: how do you express gratitude to your family? For example, if it’s the mother’s nature to not feel grateful or not show it, the little ones mirror […]

Can’t Relax Until The House Is Clean? Know This!

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“Why can’t relax until the house is house is clean?” This is a question I see so many women asking in an online community I recently joined. In fact, I have also been one of those moms with this exact question until I learned the why. I was constantly stressed, anxious, and would find myself […]

Best Hobbies for Ladies: 17 Interesting & Satisfying Options

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If you’ve ever found yourself on your phone, scrolling through endless reels, and thinking, “There has to be more to life than this,” I get it because I’ve been there too.  Between balancing work deadlines and making sure the kiddos are where they need to be, we often put our passions on the back burner. […]

10 Best Things to do in Huntsville, Alabama: A Visitors Guide by a Local 

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Hey, y’all.  If you’re planning a trip to Huntsville, you’re in for a treat. As someone who proudly calls this lively city home, I can’t wait to share all the spots that make it so special.  I get it—planning a trip can feel like herding cats. You want to hit all the must-see places without […]

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